房间里的尖叫声 – 如何成功运用肢体语言!Screams in the room-how to use body language successfully!

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你听到了吗?
它发出了声音,却没说一个字。
它没说话,却表达出了自己的喜好和憎恶。
它甚至明显地暗示出自己开心与否。
猜不出吗?
”它”就是肢体语言。
肢体语言能够表达出说话者的真情实感。
你能辨别和解读对方肢体语言表达的含义吗?
如果答案是“否”,那么你正失去帮助自己和他人获得更好沟通的机会。

Body

肢体语言——房间里的尖叫声!

 

亲爱的读者,

你参加新工作一周了。明天周末,办公室同事都非常开心。而你初来乍到,对同事们都不太熟悉,非常想要融入他们的圈子。

你觉得最好的方式是,向同事作自我介绍。你看到一个衣着考究的人靠在墙上,走向他。他独自一人站在那里,你能够非常容易地开始和他对话。

他看到你过来,立即抱起手臂将肩膀一侧对着你。说明什么呢?对,不要浪费他时间。所以请转变方向走向其他人。

你的下一个目标是一群在一起聊天的人们,当你走近,他们将圈子缩小,降低声音。很显然,你又被拒绝了。

这样的场景或许你都看到过或经历过。现实中遇到这类问题,你可能无法掌控,但是你能够明白对方的意图。以上两种情景中,他们肢体语言表达的意思非常明显。

地球上的每一种生物都会通过动作来发出讯息。假如你在森林中遇到一只熊,那么不要害怕,按照专家说的,站直,举起左臂并发出低沉的声音。

当然,希望你永远不要遇到。

每天我们都使用肢体语言表达着行为和感情–可能是祝福,亦或是咒骂。当我们说话与行为表达一致时,我们的人际交往将变得越来越好。

学习肢体语言有利于提高人际交往的技能。对于你与朋友、家人或生意伙伴建立融洽的关系具有非常大的帮助。

问自己以下三个问题:

  • 如果你能通过对方的肢体语言判断出他是否在说谎,会怎么样?
  • 如果你能够掌握这项技能,会怎么样?
  • 如果赌博中你能够读取对方的细节动作所表达的意思,会怎么样?

那么,你现在就能知晓这一切,而且非常简单!

如何开始!

你可以在当地社区大学或综合性大学里选修心理学课程。当然,如果你以后不想从事这方面的事业,这将大材小用。

你可以去图书馆,翻阅健康心理书籍,很多书需要查阅资料才能理解。它们厚重,积灰,大多已过时,它们只不过是一页一页的纸张,对你毫无用处。

那些专业指导书不适用于日常生活。你需要的是一本实用的指南,帮助你获取便于应用到生活中的知识。

你需要的就是这本《如何成功运用肢体语言》

最好的部分是. . .

  • 并非专家撰写,简单易懂。
  • 详细地介绍了肢体语言方面的知识。
  • 非常值得一读!

本书作者基于自身经验所得撰写本书,将帮助你辨别和解读自身及他人的肢体语言,从而提升你的人际交往能力。从本书中,你将:

  • 学习肢体语言的“真谛”。
  • 出自身存在的肢体语言的错误。
  • 意识到“双脚从不说谎”。
  • 如何观察他人的微表情。
  • 提升自身的第二语言。

 

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Dear readers, You have been in your new job for a week. Tomorrow weekend, the office colleagues will be very happy. But you are new here, and you are not very familiar with your colleagues and want to be part of their circle very much. You think the best way is to introduce yourself to your colleagues. You see a well-dressed man leaning against the wall and approaching him. He is standing there alone, and you can start a conversation with him very easily. When he sees you coming, he immediately lifts his arms and puts his shoulder to you. What does it mean? Yes, don’t waste his time. So please change direction and walk towards other people. Your next goal is a group of people chatting together. When you come closer, they narrow the circle and lower their voices. Obviously, you have been rejected again. You may have seen or experienced such scenes. In reality, you may not be able to control this kind of problems, but you can understand the other party’s intentions. In the above two situations, the meanings expressed by their body language are very obvious. Every creature on earth sends out messages through actions. If you encounter a bear in the forest, don’t be afraid, stand up straight, raise your left arm and make a low sound, as the experts say. Of course, I hope you never encounter. Every day we use body language to express our actions and feelings-it may be a blessing or a curse. When we speak and act in harmony, our interpersonal communication will become better and better. Learning body language helps to improve interpersonal skills. It is very helpful for you to establish rapport with friends, family or business partners. Ask yourself the following three questions: What if you can tell whether the other person is lying or not through his body language? What if you can master this skill? What if you could read the meaning of the opponent’s detailed actions during gambling? Well, you can know all of this now, and it’s very simple! How to start! You can take psychology courses in local community colleges or comprehensive universities. Of course, if you don’t want to engage in this kind of business in the future, it will be overkill. You can go to the library and read books about health and psychology. Many books need to be consulted to understand. They are thick, dusty, and mostly outdated. They are just pages of paper, useless to you. Those professional guide books are not suitable for daily life. What you need is a practical guide to help you acquire knowledge that is easy to apply to life. What you need is this “How to Use Body Language Successfully”. The best part is… It is not written by an expert, it is simple and easy to understand. The knowledge of body language is introduced in detail. It’s worth reading! The author of this book has written this book based on his own experience, which will help you identify and interpret the body language of yourself and others, thereby enhancing your interpersonal skills. From this book, you will: Learn the “truth” of body language. Find out your own body language errors. Realize that “two feet never lie.” How to observe the micro expressions of others. Improve your second language.

 

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